Stalking
Stalking is not love, it is illegal

Stalking is a harmful pattern of behavior that leaves you feeling afraid, anxious, harassed, or threatened. It is illegal, and happens by someone who is an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend, or other ex partner, that persistently contacts you, follows you, sends unwanted items, engages in conversation despite your disinterest, or makes threats.

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What are stalking behaviors?

• Tracking your daily schedule
• Appearing at locations you frequent
• Sending mail, emails, or images
• Repeatedly calling or texting you
• Engaging with you or about you on social media platforms
• Writing letters
• Vandalizing your property
• Creating a website pertaining to you
• Sending unsolicited gifts
• Taking items that belong to you
• Any other actions aimed at contacting, harassing, tracking, or intimidating you
  

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Are you being stalked?

Remember that stalking can occur from former or current partners, or even acquaintances or strangers. Even if you receive an unknown or unwanted note or gift, these can feel invasive and unsettling. In some instances, individuals may stalk their partners during a relationship, constantly checking in, demanding immediate responses, or following them without prior arrangement. Such behaviors can indicate an abusive relationship. If you or someone you know is experiencing this, support is available. It’s important to recognize that stalking is a crime that poses serious risks. The legal definition of stalking and the potential consequences vary by state. To understand the laws and your rights regarding stalking, reach out to a victim advocate or your local law enforcement agency. You do not have to face this situation alone. If anyone, including an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend, ex-spouse, or another ex-partner, is stalking you, remember it is not your fault. The responsibility is on that person who is engaging in controlling, threatening, or harassing you.

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Get help

If you someone is stalking you:

• If in immediate danger, call 911
• Talk to someone you trust: Talk with a friend, or if you are a minor, talk with a parent or caregiver, a teacher or school administrator, or another trusted adult.
• Additional resources are below:

Teen Line

• Call 800-852-8336
• Text, "TEEN" to 839863

National Center for Victims of Crime

• Call 855-484-2846

Strong Hearts Native Helpline

•  Call 844-762-8483 

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